I admit it. I am not a good blogger. Good bloggers write or post consistently or at least regularly, maintaining a relationship with their readers. I do not. Maybe it’s more accurate to say, I cannot.

My wife says that I often go off into my own world of thoughts. She calls it, Billyland. Whatever it is, it’s how I come to grips with or resolve within myself issues big and small. I become so immersed in the issue lots of other things take a back seat for a while. Sometimes, it’s how to fix something around the house or, lately, where to plant some trees and bushes around our property or rearranging my work room. These things I have thought through and acted on more or less. But, this is not the reason I have not written or posted here lately.

If you and I have anything at all in common then perhaps you, too, have this sense that so much of what you took for granted or thought to be true has been overturned, cast aside or just…erased. I mean really, did you ever think that the day would come when you’d need to get permission to go to church or be required, when going into a bank, to put on a mask? When did needing a law defining what a boy or girl is become necessary? Seriously, did you ever imagine days such as these? In less than one lifetime we’ve gone from the moon to the sewer, from asking what we can do for our Country to demanding what it must do for us. We’ve gone from worrying about nuclear fallout to greenhouse gases to now…cow farts. Can it get any crazier? Apparently, yes. Our Commander-in-Chief promises us that in June he’ll release information letting us know that UFO’s are for real and…get this, some creatures from outer space may have been visiting us from time to time. Oh, really? Have you taken a close look lately at Congress or your Cabinet, Mr. President? But, I digress.

There has been one particular issue that has really wormed its way into my thoughts almost non-stop: The Cops.

Nearly everyone has an opinion of cops. Some people say they love them and maybe they do – until they are getting pulled over for some traffic violation or they are putting handcuffs on them for beating their wife. How quickly love then fades. Once, as a rookie officer doing traffic duty for the first time, I managed to screw up pretty badly the flow of cars. What looked to be a simple task proved not to be quite so easy. I knew drivers were getting impatient, but I was determined to do the best I could in moving rush hour traffic through a busy downtown. I took the horn blowing in stride but wasn’t at all prepared for what happened so unexpectedly that it left me stunned. A rather fancy car pulled up along side me and the driver rolled down the passenger side window. Thinking he needed something, I bent down so that I could hear him. The driver leaned over and said, “Why don’t you go have a doughnut and leave people alone”. He then spit on my brand new uniform and sped off.

I was so stunned that all I could do was stand there in the middle of traffic looking as dumb as I felt. A senior officer noticing me standing there came over and asked what was the matter. I told him what happened and admitted , when he asked, that, no, I did not get the marker number of the car. He then told me to take a break to collect my wits. I asked him why, why would someone do something like that? His answer stays with me still: “Look, kid, if you wanted to be loved you shoulda’ been a fireman”. The doughnut comment still makes me laugh, but the spitting… Oh, well.

Most people don’t know a lot of cops. As a result, most people don’t have a real sense of who cops are or what they are like – as if there was a one-size-fits-all cop mold. Recently, I read an article on a religious web site I frequent where the author was giving his best effort to defend cops in general from the current bashing they are currently subject to. In a backhanded attempt to compliment them and explain the physicality of the job he stated, “It should be expected that because of the type of people attracted to police work that most of them would like to fight”. Nothing could be further from the truth. Most cops hate to fight and will avoid doing so whenever possible. They also know that if a physical confrontation – a fight – is unavoidable, they cannot come out of it second best. It is also a myth that most cops go around shooting people. The overwhelmingly vast majority of cops never discharge their weapons, except on the practice range, during the entire course of their careers.

So, who are the cops? They are us. They are usually, as should be, from within our communities (an exception may be where, in many affluent communities, cops, firemen and teachers cannot afford to live in the areas they serve). Cops shop, worship, socialize, live and raise families right along side the people they protect. This commonality is crucial to both the cops and the community – both rely on the other.

In looking at the current situation of the anti-police attitude, if not movement, several questions must be asked and answered.

Are there problems with policing in the United States? Truthfully, yes. But, the problems are multi-faceted.

One is the increasing militarism of the police. Most apparent is the uniform. Look at many police departments today and you will see their officers dressed in military-style garb. Also, many departments have been granted or gifted military surplus equipment: armored vehicles, robots, drones and heavy weapons and this equipment is seemingly used or deployed whenever possible. This trend has been increasing over the past 30 years or so.

Secondly is training. There are two main approaches to Police Training: Warrior or Guardian. The first style emphasizes being ready at all times to be attacked while performing their jobs, thus being hyper-vigilant. The second style of training emphasizes approaching the public more as a Guardian: Always alert to safety but also actively engaging in non-enforcement contacts with the public. This is a simplified version, of course, of these styles of training but it illustrates, I think, the need for a change in style and perhaps a return to the old style of community policing.

Thirdly is Management. This past year showed us a parade of politically motivated police chiefs willing to sacrifice their communities, departments and their officers in an effort to save themselves from public criticism or political pressure. In nearly every case it had the opposite affect, cities burned, communities became more disenfranchised and officers became disheartened, jaded or worse.

Is all this upheaval coincidental or inevitable? I don’t believe so.

searching for “papers”

There have been more and more frequent calls from within certain sectors of government and private organizations for such things as “social workers” replacing or accompanying police in the performance of their duties. Also, there has been a renewed effort to adopt a National Federal Standard for police. If communities and police truly wish to have a fair and compassionate police department it must remain locally staffed, trained and controlled. And we must be vigilant in preventing any politician or group from seizing control of our communities, police or rights. History is replete with examples of this, few as eerily similar than that of 1930’s Germany.

For further information on this topic ideas please read:

Law Enforcement’s “Warrior” Problem, Seth Stoughton, Harvard Law Review (

Building Guardians to Create a Better Community, Sue Rahr, National Police Foundation


The Nazification of the German Police, United States Holocaust Memorial Museum,



As always, thanks for reading. Comments always welcome.

Pray, be kind, do not be afraid.


17 thoughts on “Coppers

  1. kery June 9, 2021 / 12:36 pm

    I am always looking forward to your posts, Bill. Thanks for letting us know more about you. I relate to your words as I have several cop friends that think and feel just like you do. Some of them have left because of the militarization you talked about. Thanks for exposing facts in a poised and straightforward manner. This information is much needed to counter the false narratives being shared by the news and other groups that do not have the best of this country and their citizens at heart.

    Liked by 2 people

    • BGCT2VA June 11, 2021 / 6:21 pm

      Thanks, Kery. As you can see, I’ve been at a loss of words lately. These are sure crazy times.


  2. melissamyounger June 5, 2021 / 1:33 pm

    Thank you for sharing about your background and insight into cops. I think we need more stories like yours shared as the media sometimes only portrays one thing. You are a good blogger- you write good blogs!

    Liked by 1 person

    • BGCT2VA June 11, 2021 / 6:25 pm

      Thanks, Melissa! I’m thankful that my calling to be a policeman was years ago, I’m not sure how the guys are coping with everything these days.


  3. Back To Stable Hill May 30, 2021 / 7:18 pm

    I loved reading your post. I don’t personally know any police officers (other than the ones I see when I bring them cookies 🍪), but I do know a sheriff’s deputy. Everyone makes mistakes, and I don’t understand how people can hate police officers – if they only knew the scope of all they do! I can’t imagine a life without police officers…though I guess Portland and Seattle are good examples of that. Your point on UFOs is a good one – just take a look at this country’s leaders. Lastly, thank you for your service.

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    • BGCT2VA May 30, 2021 / 11:41 pm

      Thank you, Reagan. These surely are very interesting times to live in. Best wishes to you in your further studies.

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  4. Detecting Diva May 26, 2021 / 6:30 am

    Very interesting and informative post. I think more people need to hear from the law enforcement side of the issues.

    Liked by 2 people

    • BGCT2VA May 26, 2021 / 10:04 pm

      Thanks. When sincere, informed people of goodwill have the necessary conversations problems can be solved. Police will make mistakes. How those mistakes are handled impacts both the departments and the public. But, too, when all goes to hell in a hand basket, the public and elected officials must be very clear in their expectations of what they want the police to do – before the event takes place.


  5. Texans Jack & Dodie May 7, 2021 / 9:19 pm

    I’ve been looking forward to another post from you. Bill, you certainly did not disappoint. Of all the posts I’ve read of yours so far, this is my favorite.
    My father was a police officer and detective from the late 1950s through the 1980s in San Antonio. He was exactly as you described. Immersed in our community, he coached my Little League teams, volunteered at school functions, and was looked up to by many, including the downtrodden or some who seemed to get into trouble occasionally. My sister and I grew up amongst children of police families. Yes, there were incidents when officers went astray, but very rare. (We can say the same about students in a classroom, physicians, soldiers, pharmacists, churches…).
    This piece was very insightful and articulate! God Bless.

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    • BGCT2VA May 7, 2021 / 9:54 pm

      Thanks, Jack, your responses always mean a lot to me.
      Early on in my career there was one summer of particular unrest in our city. The Panthers, Weathermen, Yippies, LK’s, SDS, BM’s and just about every other Leftist/ Marxist/ anarchist group made an appearance in our town. Yes, it sure was a fun summer. All of us on the force were taking a beating – in every sense of the word.
      One Sunday our Captain informed us that every member of the shift would attend a church service being held in a little non-denominational church. We had no idea of why or what to expect.

      The pastor was a middle-aged man who spoke eloquently about our “Calling” as policemen and how grateful he and all his congregation were for the jobs we were doing and that it was their idea to have this particular service to thank us and to let us know they were praying for us. After the service we were asked to stay in our seats for a moment and after a few minutes someone from the congregation said, “Please follow me, gentlemen”. We followed him outside to a reception line where every member of that church shook our hands and said, “Thank you”. We were stunned. Some of us were brought to tears. Never had we experienced anything like this – nor would we ever again. But, it something that will always be remembered and cherished.

      I pray that our men and women “Coppers” remember that what they do is a Calling – much more than a job. I pray, too, that as these days grow darker they remember us and that we remember them.

      Thanks, again, Jack


      • BGCT2VA May 8, 2021 / 4:53 pm

        Thanks again, Jack

        I was thinking about how you described your father – big city cop that never lost touch with his community. It reminded me of the Normal Rockwell painting of the little kid eating ice cream with the policeman at the soda fountain. The art of simplicity in both the painting and in what it portrayed.

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    • BGCT2VA May 5, 2021 / 9:45 pm

      Thanks, Mitch I look forward to a more peace-filled future but am concerned we will have to be tested for a while more.

      Liked by 2 people

    • BGCT2VA May 5, 2021 / 9:53 pm

      No one that truly loves his country can be complacent watching it being torn apart. Something must change..

      Liked by 1 person

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